When a guy breaks up with his girlfriend, it's difficult to get over
her especially he still loves her. To some people, this is life
threatening. But I tell you, it's somehow easy to get over your ex
girlfriend than she. All you need are the tips and secrets, once you
have them, you can take the bull by its horn. I have compiled some
working tips I believe would enable you get over your ex girlfriend.
Some of them are:
How to Get Over Your Ex Girlfriend
Relocation:
If you live close to your ex girlfriend's house, I think you should
plan how to relocate. The more you see her, the more you reminisce on
the good time memories you spent with her. Though, it's not always easy
to relocate from one house to another just because of a breakup. If this
is far from your reach, I suggest you try some other tips briefed
herein.
Take a look around your room, gather everything you got
from ex and pack them into a box. Some people might go to the extent of
burning them but I don't think it's a good idea. If you feel burning
them is a good idea, then go ahead but think twice about this in order
not to regret in time to come. Most especially her pictures, gifts and
any physical properties that have to do with your ex girlfriend should
be packed and kept elsewhere. Bring them out, arrange them into a box
and send it to the store where you can rarely see it or remember it.
Delete
her contacts from your phone: It's better to write her phone number and
keep it inside that box you sent to the store. This is necessary
because the need to contact your ex girlfriend for something very
important may arise. The purpose of deleting it from your phone book is
to stop you from remembering her. Delete all the text messages she sent
you, her multimedia messages, pictures, videos and other things about
your ex girlfriend that has to do with your phone. If the phone you are
using was a free gift from her, it would be nice to change it for
another phone. I tell you, the more you see that phone, the more you
would remember your ex.
Find something doing all the time: If you
are unemployed, find a job fast. Don't stay idle, if you do, the
thoughts of your ex girlfriend will continuously bombard you. Even in
your free time, find something to do like going to the park with
friends, cinema, beach or something that would keep you busy. Browse the
internet, find someone to talk, watch tv and have a good time. By
keeping yourself busy all day, you won't have the time to start thinking
about the old time memories.
Start searching for someone else: If
you find it difficult to stay without a girlfriend. I suggest you should
start making moves to date another person. Girls are everywhere, the
good and the bad; it depends on the type you want. When searching for
another partner, make her characteristics different from your ex. Think
about the characteristics you will want to see your new girlfriend
posses and start to look for one.
Finally, if you still love and
cherish your ex girlfriend, I think you should give her a second chance.
Making up is the only way to bring her back to your life. Sometimes
when couples break up and make up, the love becomes stronger because
both of you won't want what happened in the past to happen again. You
will try as much as possible to avoid what caused the last breakup and
respect each other when it comes to that.